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Help for suicidal thoughts

Where to get help if you are having suicidal thoughts, and what to do if you are worried about someone else.

26 May 2023

Introduction

If you're feeling like you want to die, it's important to tell someone.

Help and support is available right now if you need it. You do not have to struggle with difficult feelings alone.

These free helplines are there to help when you're feeling down or desperate.

Unless it says otherwise, they're open 24 hours a day, every day.

You can also call these helplines for advice if you're worried about someone else.

Samaritans ↗ – for everyone
Call 116 123
Email jo@samaritans.org ↗

Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) ↗
Call 0800 58 58 58 – 5pm to midnight every day
Visit the webchat page ↗

Papyrus – prevention of young suicide HOPELINE247 ↗
Call 0800 068 41 41
Text 07860 039967
Email pat@papyrus-uk.org ↗

Childline ↗ – for children and young people under 19
Call 0800 1111 – the number will not show up on your phone bill

SOS Silence of Suicide ↗ – for everyone
Call 0300 1020 505 – 4pm to midnight every day
Email support@sossilenceofsuicide.org ↗

If you do not want to talk to someone over the phone, these text lines are open 24 hours a day, every day.

Shout Crisis Text Line ↗ – for everyone

Text "SHOUT" to 85258

YoungMinds Crisis Messenger ↗ – for people under 19

Text "YM" to 85258

Let family or friends know what's going on for you. They may be able to offer support and help keep you safe.

There's no right or wrong way to talk about suicidal feelings – starting the conversation is what's important.

If you find it difficult to talk to someone you know, you could:

  • call a GP – ask for an emergency appointment
  • call 111 out of hours – they will help you find the support and help you need
  • contact your mental health crisis team – if you have one

Important

Is your life in danger?

If you have seriously harmed yourself – for example, by taking a drug overdose – or you feel that you may be about to harm yourself, call 999 for an ambulance or go straight to A&E.

Or ask someone else to call 999 or take you to A&E.

  • try not to think about the future – just focus on getting through today
  • stay away from drugs and alcohol
  • get yourself to a safe place, like a friend's house
  • be around other people
  • do something you usually enjoy, such as spending time with a pet

See more tips from Rethink ↗

If you're worried about someone, try to get them to talk to you. Ask open-ended questions like: "How do you feel about...?"

Do not worry about having the answers. Just listening to what someone has to say and taking it seriously can be more helpful.

See Samaritans' tips on how to support someone you're worried about ↗

Read Rethink's advice on how to support someone who is having suicidal thoughts ↗

Making a safety plan

If you struggle with suicidal thoughts or are supporting someone else, it may help to make a safety plan to use if you need it: